Abrasiveness read in Astrology

Well. The gentleman who sat in front of me seemed to be disgusted with his life and stated it twice, rather emphatically in fact. 

‘So you do…’,I said, ‘…life can be disgusting for several reasons. Sometimes it can be disgusting without any reason.’ 

‘Please believe me…’,he said,’…I have several reasons.’

 ‘I sincerely believe you! Somebody’s repeated misbehaviour, somebody’s quick irritability, something not happening, something else happening, nothing goes right…’ 

‘Nobody understands me’

That is where we took the pause.

 ‘Did you explain yourself properly?’ 

‘What is there to explain? This is a daily routine. Am I expected to lecture every day?’

 ‘Not at all! How do you express your anger?’ 

‘I used to shout, but I lost my strength. I remain silent…I suffer in silence.’ 

There is this phenomenon in Psychology which describes it as putting the cart before the horse. There are individuals who will always place their ‘cart’-predetermined ideas and impressions before even something is said. At the drop of a hat, the reply will be a standard, abrasive one or an almost unpredictably irritating one. If you have to deal with such a person throughout your life, life is on the opposite borders of paradise-just disgusting!

 ‘You are talking about your wife I suppose’

 ‘Who else? If it were to be my boss, how do I care? That’s his job. Can counselling help?’ 

I weighed it. Counselling would certainly help. But such individuals either substantiate their behaviour by going to the extremes or create fresh complications for themselves and as a consequence, to others. These are generally combinations of two or more planets either in the fifth from lagna or seventh from the Moon. Usually the planets involved are Saturn, Raahu or Mars (Kuja). I took the details of his wife and studied the horoscope. It turned out that Saturn, Mars and Mercury were in the fifth house while Saturn was debilitated. That made it all the more interesting.

 ‘ She is abrasive because she is nervous.’ 

He shook his head in disapproval. 

‘Nervous…and this woman? Impossible. She sets off like a rocket…’

 I stopped him.

 ‘Let me tell you something interesting. Nervous ones are not only those who stammer, withdraw or remain shy and introverts. Abrasive behaviour is often a sign of deep inferiority sense converting into a distinct urge to dominate and get rid of the person and the situation which appears strikingly real to them but is a figment of their own imagination. If you try to tell them that is unreal, they will not take it since they are different kind of logicians. They have already outperformed themselves. Hence they see no point in accepting the fallacy on which they have behaved in this manner. I suppose you understand.’ 

He nodded. 

‘You have given me an insight and a bit of a hindsight to take guard rather than brooding over it.’

 ‘I am glad you said this. Nevertheless, there is a certain  music which reduces the intensity of this abrasiveness and gradually makes them hold it before bursting.’

 ‘Music? How does this act?’

 ‘Yes. Our energy codes are all inside the chakras. Musical notes played according to a configuration open the doors to these chakras and the energies conjoin differently to impact the blood circulation. You can see the results yourself!’ 

He sounded convinced. 

‘I have heard about complicated psychic behaviour from others but you are the first one to mention nervousness.’ 

This was because I had spotted Mercury with a debilitated Saturn.

 ‘That’s right. So go ahead and play the music. It can be entertaining as well. Does she resent music by any chance?’

 ‘No.  I have no problem there.’

 I was beginning to understand that the severe hatred and disgust were receding inside him. However, one must remember that even if you knew what the problem was, there are limits to human endurance during such circumstances. If someone has this phenomenal or seasonal bouts of abrasiveness, conscious effort should be made through several such self help methods including meditation and medication so that unpleasant situations are avoided rather than allowed to happen and talk about who is right and who is wrong.   

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